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BODY SHAMING IS MAKING YOU FEEL LESS AND TAKING AWAY YOUR REAL IDENTITY THAT'S WHEN YOU EITHER STOP BEING YOURSELF OR PUT YOURSELF IN A CLOSET IT'S NOT RESTRICTED TO SKINNY, MID SIZE OR PLUS SIZE OR SKIN TONE BECAUSE BELIEVE ME EVEN THE PERFECT BODY IMAGE THAT WE HAVE IN OUR MIND MUST ALSO BE GOING THROUGH SOME INSECURITIES BECAUSE THERE IS NO ONE THAT'S PERFECT. OUR INSECURITIES HELPS OTHERS WHO BODY SHAME US. YES, IT MAY SOUND CRUEL BUT TRUE. WE ALWAYS TALK ABOUT HOW HE/SHE IS BODY SHAMING ME' BUT ARENT YOU DOING THAT WITH YOURSELF EVERY DAY WHEN YOU LOOK AT YOURSELF I HAVE BEEN THROUGH DAYS WHEN I WAS TOO SKINNY AND WAS TOLD I AM A STICK LIL MOUSE NOT STRONG ENOUGH TO MAYBE EVEN SURVIVE WHEN I WAS BORN I HAVE BEEN HEALTHY MID SIZE WOMEN WHO HAVE BEEN TOLD YOU HAVE TOO HUGE THIGHS FOR YOU TO WEAR SHORTS YOU WERE PERFECT WHEN YOU WERE SLIM "SKINNY" WHY DID YOU GAIN WEIGHT. I HAVE BEEN ON BOTH THE PLACES NEITHER I AM TOO DARK NOR TOO FAIR STILL I WAS JUDGED "NO, DONT BUY IT won't SUIT YOU GORE LOAG PAR YEH COLOUR ACHA LAGTA HAI. YOU KNOW WHY WE ALLOWED THAT TO ENTER OUR SOUL BECAUSE WE FELT IT WAS TRUE SOMEWHERE ELSE WE WOULD HAVE FORGOTTEN IT AND MOVED ON. ISNT IT ?? WE ONLY REMEMBER STUFF THAT MATTERS US. THERE ARE BILLIONS AND BILLIONS OF PEOPLE AND SO BILLIONS AND BILLIONS OF OPINIONS. DO YOU REALLY THINK YOU CAN STOP EACH ONE OF THEM ??? WELL YES, YOU CAN BUT WHY DONT YOU STAR WITH YOURSELF. TELL YOURSELF I AM BEAUTIFUL I AM ENOUGH I AM HAPPY AND I NEED NO ONE TO TELL ME HOW I LOOK ?? I AM TODAY A MID SIZE WOMEN WITH THYROID. I WEAR WHAT I FEEL MAKES ME BEAUTIFUL INSIDE AND OUTSIDE THERE IS NO ONE WHO CAN DEFINE ME BETTER THEN ME SO WHY DONT I DEFINE MYSELF AS BEAUTIFUL AND POWERFUL. STOP BLAMING OTHERS FOR BODY SHAMING WHEN YOU ARE DOING THAT TO YOURSELF. PROMISE YOURSELF THAT YOU WILL LOVE YOURSELF MORE THEN ANYONE COULD EVER LOVE YOU AND BELIEVE ME, IT WILL BRING A MASSIVE POSITIVE CHANGE IN YOUR LIFE THOUGHT PROCESS AND EVEN PEOPLE AROUND YOU.


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Something that I like to remember that I heard on 

Amber Scholl 

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" WHAT IF IT DOESNT COME TRUE?
 AH! BUT WHAT IF IT DOES." 
  https://www.youtube.com/user/PopppDivaaa

So let's give our dreams a chance to win.

XOXO
CG


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